I’ve been talking to a girl who asked me for my snap in the dining hall for about 2 weeks, and i really like her. We’ve gone on one date that was kinda awkward about a week ago. Two days ago I asked if she wanted to go bowling on Wednesday and she said she’d lmk, but she never did. So today I asked her if she wanted to go get food on Thursday, or Friday. But she said she works Thursday and has a soccer commitment on Friday (she also D1 soccer) she also put :(( at the end of her text which I’m not sure means anything or if I’m just grasping at straws. I feel like if she did want to hang out again she would offer different times where she is free instead of just saying she’s not free, but it sounds fun and she wants to go but can’t because her coach makes the schedule last minute. Should I just give up at this point, or should i give her the benefit of the doubt. (BTW she’s started conversations with me in the past week so I feel like she’s still interested but idk)
TLDR: Girl asked for my snap and we went om one date now she seems to be busy with soccer whenever we I try to plan a second date. But her text show she might still be interested.
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Actions over words. It doesn’t matter what she says in text. “Busy” means not interested. Move on.
Stop asking her to do anything and stop talking to her. She friend zoned you and to not let you know when you asked her on a date was rude. But it was her lame attempt at not hurting your feelings. Your date wasn’t as great for her and it’s over and time to move on.
When you ask a woman out, you’re looking for a “F$ck Yea! Let’s go out!” If it’s not an F yea, it’s a F No
if she doesn’t give another day that she is down to and free to meetup after declining your invite, she is not interested