So this guy has been texting me all week. We met on hinge ( He’s 28) (I’m 31) We had planned on going on a date today around 5 pm but he texted this morning wondering if he could see me earlier because he just wanted to see me. We went around 4 pm.
He also wanted to watch a scary movie at his house. He didn’t have a car so I picked him up and everything went fine while we were eating.
Probably for an hour than he didn’t want to cut the date short but his buddy was coming in town tonight and he hasn’t seen him in awhile. He walked me out to my car and said we should go on another date sometime. It was a little unexpected how it ended so short, but he also wanted to go out earlier and changed the time already from what he said this morning.
TL;DR We ended going up to his room just talking and didn’t kiss or anything after dinner.
Not sure what to think or if he really wanted to cut the date short. We haven’t texted since date. Should I not worry about it or just move on?
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First dates generally aren’t spent at someone’s house especially one you never met before. It’s also strange that you went to his room. Physical or not. Could be he’s telling the truth or could be his buddy is a score and he didn’t want to pass up on you also.
I would forget about him… So many red flags for such a short date.
Nah, a first date without true interest from both parties is a second date not worth having (major emergencies excluding)
From a guys perspective sounds like you didn’t fuck him and he didn’t like you enough to keep the date pushing so he just stopped replying I’d move on but probbaly expect a horny text sometime in the near future
You are 31 lol why would you go to someones house on the first date?
Doesn’t seem like he had good time tbh but also wasn’t trying to be rude to you. I would move on
Sounds like he changed his mind after he saw you in-person for the first time. Did you catfish him?
Feels like his friends have a night out planned so he streamlined yours or he has another date. Either way he didn’t respect your time so he’s a no!
Yep he’s not into you I’m sorry. Also the horror movie at his house as a first date is a red flag, it’s dangerous to go to a guys house on first date pls don’t do that