The thoughts in my mind get so vivid that I cum without being touched at all. I was shamed for it recently, but I have been like this for awhile.

I have never really seen anything wrong with it, apparently it’s something that I need to go to therapy for.

Should I be ashamed or see a therapist? Is this not a normal thing?

12 comments
  1. All depends on what the thoughts are?! 😂Nothing to be ashamed of, you just have a high sex drive and a vivid imagination that gets you super turned on. I’m slightly jealous! I’d love to be able to orgasm without having to wank myself off!

  2. I can’t find a reason why you should need therapy for having an orgasm without touching yourself. You’re not causing any harm to yourself or anyone else

  3. I don’t think you should be ashamed, it’s part of you,I think it’s cool, try and work it into your life somehow and enjoy it

  4. Never be ashamed. Nothing is sacrosanct but for your own need to seek pleasure

  5. >The thoughts in my mind get so vivid that I cum without being touched at all. I was shamed for it recently, but I have been like this for awhile.

    There’s nothing to be shamed here for. Mental orgasms though rare do exist and so does pelvic floorgasm. It could be just one or both that makes you orgasm just from thoughts.

    >Should I be ashamed or see a therapist? Is this not a normal thing?

    I would think that’s something extreme to consider here. Is your sex life affected by this? If that’s the case then yeah, therapy would be helpful.

  6. Whoever shamed you is a jerk, and they were probably just jealous. I think it’s really cool, and I wish I could do it! It’s said that the brain is our largest sex organ, and some people take the time to learn how to do what you do. You just have natural talent lol.

  7. I am a man and I managed few times to get orgasm by looking on a certain girl (to whom i felt huuuuge drive) photos and imagining having sex with her.

    It is the problem of huge sex drive. I went to therapy and got diagnosed as ADHD hypersexual.

  8. That’s literally a superpower op! You don’t need therapy, you need to teach others how to! 🍻

  9. Nope. Never be ashamed for being you. I realized, about a year ago, that I could accomplish this too. It is a skill. I had no idea that this could even be done, until I did it. I was so surprised, I did it a second time to show my wife. I can’t do it all the time, nor do I want to. I see it as a nice way to change up alone time, every once in a while.

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