Well, I guess the title says it all 🙂
My wife and I want anal sex but dont know where to start or how to train. She likes butt stuff like licking her ass, rubbin her anus and taking in a finger. But the dick is too much. So we are looking for ways to train her ass if that makes sense.
Should I stretch it with one finger, sincr two are too much? Are buttplugs a good option?
Thank you 🙂
2 comments
Lube a lot.
The key is for her to push (like pushing during bowel movement) when inserting anything. This ironically relaxes the sphincter making it easier to receive.
A butt plug is beneficial for enhancing sensations during vaginal sex. So it’s a great tool but not necessary for training first timers. A plug is designed to stay in place not to “fuck.”
I would start with a modestly sized dildo (bigger than finger smaller than penis). This will allow you both to focus on the insertion slowly and together.
Once she is better at receiving the next piece is to learn the sensations of fucking. The dildo is helpful here again so she will be able to learn how to control her own contractions and the sensation of pulling out.
Lube. Again. Use lube.
Once she is comfy with anal play move to intercourse. This will take time as it is a little more challenging with different positions. Just go slow.
Lastly is cleaning the anus. You will encounter shit. So just mentally prepare for that. Some like to always use condoms here. Definitely grab a towel or specific sheets to ensure any mishaps are contained. Some people take chances based on their intimate knowledge of their own body and bowel movements, but I suggest anal douching as a good skill to employ. Knowing your colon is empty adds confidence to anal sex. Douching does impact anal health if done too frequently so read up on that risk depending on how frequently you might try it.
I think butt plugs were great for me helped stretch me a bit. But tons of lib is so important without it you could bleed or tear and it just hurts