I’m a 26M who has decent success on dating apps. I get a fair share of matches but lately I’ve found the conversations not going anywhere or myself not get as many dates. My last relationship was 2 years ago where my ex cheated on me and since then I’ve had a number of casual relationships but nothing serious.
I want to have a committed girlfriend that I can build a future with but dating apps have me feeling demotivated where there’s an increased emphasis on looks and other superficial aspects so I often delete them but then feel lonely for not having a partner.
Id like to meet someone in person but my evenings are all taken up by training Muay Thai as id like to fight in the near future. I also don’t enjoy partying or drinking as much as others my age.
The women I do date either have no personality but are hot af or I’m not physically attracted them despite them being amazing human beings. Id like someone who has a good amount of both as I’ve been told I have a great personality and decent looks by my past dates/fwbs.
Does anyone else relate? Not sure how to curb the loneliness but also wary of ending up in another situationship from a dating app and getting older just gives me more anxiety about not finding someone “in time”.