I (f24) consistently feel like im going to pee whenever I have sex or fingered. It’s weird, as even when I go to toilet beforehand the feelings still there. I quickly stop things as I fear if I’ll actually pee. I should emphasise that I’ve never had an orgasm before also.
Can anyone explain? Thanks 😊
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May be the angle. Hitting the G spot can cause that type of feeling. I find i get less of that feeling in doggy and most in missionary. You could try prone. Or putting a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis.
Well, it could easily be, that wile having sex or be fingered, it presses on your bladder a bit. You should not be so concerned about it.
Maybe you try in a controlled environment (i.e. bathroom) if it is just the feeling of, or if you really have to pee. In the first case, it could lead to higher pleasures. In the second … too, but only if you and/or your partner is into such things. 🙂
If that’s not the case (if you don’t like it), then I’m afraid you can only do what you already do. If it’s really bothering you, then you should talk to a doctor about it what can be done.
It sounds to me like you are about to squirt, not pee. That’s kind of how it felt to me the first time I did it. Totally natural. There are certain positions that hit the g spot that can encourage squirting, so if you are self conscious about it, you could do other things. Make sure to communicate with your partner. Or just put down a towel and enjoy yourself! My partners have never complained about my squirting. In fact, they usually encourage it because it means I’m enjoying myself.
You should just let it out once to figure out if it’s indeed peeing or squirting. Both may have similar constituents but the scenario and pleasure they give are different.
I think you need to have an orgasm. You probably have a lot of feelings… and fluid built up inside of you 🤣 JUST LET IT OUT. if you are scared, put a towel down or do what you have to do in the shower. You could try just external stimulation vs. internal.
I mirror what everyone else is saying, but also the pelvic floor is responsible for orgasms, needing to pee, and needing to poop. They’re all connected by the same set of muscles.
If you are worried about it, you could always see a pelvic floor Physical therapist. Sometimes over-tightness, lack of strength, under tightness can cause a need to pee when orgasming, which may feel uncomfortable if it happens every time. Or honestly you could try asking your obgyn.
I feel like I have to pee and that’s right when I squirt. Let it go and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised.
Pro tip: buy Not Wet Spot blankets!
You’re a squirter darling. The path of a woman’s cum squirt is very close to the bladder. When your squirt builds because you are aroused sexualy, it puts a little pressure on your bladder. It just feels like you have to pee but you really have to squirt. Let it go and enjoy.
When you feel like you need to pee, that’s actually an orgasm about to happen. Let it happen. Stop trying to control your body. Just relax and let your partner take you over the edge.