This is going to sound really insecure…

So, I’ve been in a relationship for 6 months, everything has been fine. But recently, we were celebrating her father’s birthday at her family home, and everyone had a few drinks. She was able to give her dad (who is obese) a piggy back ride, she then beat me and her dad in an arm wrestling match.

Now, I am kinda scared. Before, if she ended up being crazy and attacked me, I could defend myself. But now, if she goes crazy, I’m probably going to lose. I’m worried now, because if we argue, who knows…

12 comments
  1. Congratulations, now you know what it’s like to move through life as a woman.

  2. >>Now, I am kinda scared. Before, if she ended up being crazy and attacked me, I could defend myself

    I mean, what in the fresh hell of catastrophizing is this?

  3. So when you thought you were stronger than her, she should have been scared of you?

  4. Has she ever given you the impression she’s capable of physically attacking you?

    Do you have a history of provoking your partners to the point of physical altercations?

    If neither is true, you’re fine, you’re living the dream.

    If the 1st is true, why do you feel this way?

    If the 2nd is true, you need therapy.

  5. Has there been any indication of her going crazy?

    Do you have a habit of making woman go crazy?

    I don’t really understand the concern here?

  6. Dude you’re complaining about a muscle mommy, dude why would this led to physical fighting also chill the fuck out. Look bring it up to her be like I’m quite intimidated and worry that you’ll be abusive to me and express that you don’t know why but ever since you seen her pick up her dad and beat you 2 that you feel a little bit down

  7. You almost certainly speak to people who are stronger or otherwise more dangerous than you on a daily basis. Why is this different? Do you have any reason to think she’s likely to resort to violence?

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