I am a lesbian. For at least a year now, I’ve had a deep crush for this girl who was in a few of my classes (we went to the same 6th form college).

She’s previously had a boyfriend but they didn’t last long. She speaks to me often whenever we cross paths, we aren’t best friends but I would say we are close acquaintances. She flirts with me a lot. The issue is, I don’t know if it’s genuine as I know lots of women like to joke or lead on lesbians because they like the attention. My 6th form had cliques, almost like a high school…if had to pin point, she would 100 percent be popular. She constantly has guys pining over her which sucks even more. She doesn’t engage with them romantically at all but she has done in the past.

Furthermore, we just enrolled in the same course for uni. This sucks as I’m so head over heels and I can’t bare to see her everyday if I say something and she doesn’t feel the same way. If I do say something and she feels the same way, her friends wouldn’t approve because none of them really know me and they are all very typical “popular” type people (dismissive of people below them ect). She has never explicitly told me that she’s straight but she def is attracted to men. Also, her old bf and her got together around the time we really started talking, she would tell me about him often and we (him and I) would interact very plainly and dry, only ever exchanging a few words.

PLEASE HELP! I’m so incredibly swept which frickin sucks as I see her every single day. ADVICE PLS? D:

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  1. Put “your a girls girl” on your hinge profile and after 1-2 hook up you should be fine.

  2. >I am a lesbian. For at least a year now, I’ve had a deep crush for this
    girl who was in a few of my classes (we went to the same 6th form
    college
    >
    >She’s previously had a boyfriend but they didn’t last long. She speaks
    to me often whenever we cross paths, we aren’t best friends but I would
    say we are close acquaintances. She flirts with me a lot. The issue is, I
    don’t know if it’s genuine as I know lots of women like to joke or lead
    on lesbians because they like the attention. My 6th form had cliques,
    almost like a high school…if had to pin point, she would 100 percent
    be popular. She constantly has guys pining over her which sucks even
    more. She doesn’t engage with them romantically at all but she has done
    in the past.
    >
    >Furthermore, we just
    enrolled in the same course for uni. This sucks as I’m so head over
    heels and I can’t bare to see her everyday if I say something and she
    doesn’t feel the same way. If I do say something and she feels the same
    way, her friends wouldn’t approve because none of them really know me
    and they are all very typical “popular” type people (dismissive of
    people below them ect). She has never explicitly told me that she’s
    straight but she def is attracted to men. Also, her old bf and her got
    together around the time we really started talking, she would tell me
    about him often and we (him and I) would interact very plainly and dry,
    only ever exchanging a few words.

    I see….

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