I know it’s weird but that’s what I feel. This is so since I met him in 2018. Very often I fantasize how it would have been, growing up together, learning to walk, talk, play, knowing the other’s favorite breakfast, sleeping together, a pure love that would become romance in adolescence. Since this is not the case, then I like to think of the slightest possibility of even being half-siblings by one of our parents, since we are a year apart, in that case I would not tell anyone the secret but I would be happy to unite my life with someone with whom I share such a deep bond, like a union that no one can break. Is it a good idea if I tell him?
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Nope.
Break up and go to therapy.
I wouldn’t. While I sincerely want to believe these feelings of yours just stem from the connection and safety you feel in his company and perhaps what his company could have given you growing up, he might not understand it.
You should talk to a therapist about this
It’s as good as an idea as putting a toaster in your bathtub and jumping in, go for it
Maybe you mean childhood best friend instead of brother? Next door neighbor best friend? One of your parents best friend’s son you grew up with? If you truly mean brother (even half siblings) I’d advise you speak with a therapist NOT your boyfriend on these feelings to sort things out.
Depends, do you want him to possibly be weirded out by you and most likely break up?
Please consider talking about this with a therapist instead of your boyfriend.
You need therapy, kid, I hope you are already in one.
I think you should tell a therapist first.