It is not that I don’t play games, I fucking do and am good at it but the talking stage is soo complicated.
Texting is the worst before you meet.
Anything can be possibly interpreted in a bad light: you have to manage the other girl (or boy) expectations. You have to be playful, but not dumb or too friendly…
You don’t want to show as too available, but being distant can always backfire. You have to meet up as soon as possible, but take care not to move too fast.
Shit I can do this for a day or two at best…
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I just go distant cause I cbf if they don’t want me go suck off someone else 🤣 otherwise hmu in 5
It’s like walking through a landmine zone…proceed with caution, but if you’re reading things right, you’re not going into it totally blind. So solider on, my man, solider on.