For those that have flaked on a first date, why did you flake?

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1. Honestly? I got high and forgot.

   To be fair though, I was 13.

   Also I got drunk and forgot an anniversary date with my ex when I was 17. On Valentine’s day.

   Together those made me feel like such a piece of shit that I worked very hard to improve my communication skills.

2. I’ve only flaked twice in my OLD career and this is why. Don’t worry I told these men exactly why I wasn’t meeting with them anymore.

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   * They made me feel unsafe.
   * They began showing their ‘true intentions’

   For example, I had a dude that wanted to wine and dine me. We went out once and I had a good time. That night he pressured me into sending nudes and when I refused he began insulting me. Then he asked to get drinks the next day. Needless to say…he didn’t get a second date.