I’ve been hooking up with a guy on and off for almost 9 years. We started when I was in high school and we would fuck in our cars wherever we could. I was living alone for a few years and he would come over to my place. Now we’re both living with family members, so we’re back to sneaking around, seeing each other whenever one of us has an open home.
I’ve noticed we rarely get undressed. I used to credit it to being in the car and needing to be able to be covered quickly if caught. But now we’re usually in a house. We have our cycle pretty much down, he takes off his pants, I give him head until he starts pulling on my pants so I know to take them off and we fuck. Both of us usually have our shirts on.
Sometimes I feel self conscious about it. I want him to want to undress me. I worry he doesn’t want to see my body. How do I bring this up? To ask if there’s a reason we stay dressed? I’m hopeful it’s a kink, that’s what my best friends have suggested.. but I know I’d love to see him naked, so I just wonder why he doesn’t seem to feel the same. Any advice on how/if I should ask?
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I suspect it’s just habit, not a fetish, but you could always use your words and inquire.
You could always just undress fully next time and ask if you can undress him too. If there’s any push back you can ask after if that’s something you can start doing more of in the future because you want to see him naked.
Just rip his clothes off and yours be aggressive lol take control
Possibly just habit as u/south3y said.
Perhaps just let him know there is no rush and just slow it down.
You take charge and finish undressing him before you give him head.
Buy some sexy lingerie and show it off.
Good luck – have fun!!