My ex partner of 4 years split up with me 5 months ago now. We got into an argument, told me she wasn’t happy anymore and didn’t love me anymore and left. I haven’t heard from her since. If it’s that easy for someone to up and leave, then what’s the point?
Why would I want to go on dates again to find the right person, to then find the right person and date them for some time and for them for just leave like you meant nothing? Pointless man.
I just suffer everyday in silence now because of it. It still hurts and I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to get over her. I don’t find anyone attractive anymore, I couldn’t imagine my life with someone else and I just don’t have any trust for anyone anymore. I feel like if I was to try date again in the future, the trust wouldn’t be there because I’d just expect them to leave again like my ex did.. and everyone else I’ve ever dated as a matter of fact.
Tl;dr relationship sh*t
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Take it one day at a time and focus on healing yourself. It’s normal to feel this way after a breakup, but it doesn’t mean you’ll never be able to date again. Trust takes time to rebuild, so give yourself that time. You might find someone who makes you feel differently in the future. Good luck!