Recently I’ve (25f) been having a really hard time following through with sex with my girlfriend (26f). Stuff will go fine for a few minutes, but as soon as she asks me to get ontop my mind starts racing. It probably sounds stupid but it’s like it disables me and I can’t focus anymore and I stop moving because I’m really overwhelmed. Last week I started thinking about a project at work, then rent, and yesterday I was concerned with every little movement I was making and worried about how it felt for her (she’s reassured me she enjoys it). I get this heavy feeling in my chest and my mind won’t let me keep going so we have to stop and it really frustrated me last night.
It’s happened before but it’s getting more frequent these past 2 weeks and I can’t deal with it. I woke up thinking about it this morning and got anxious all over again.
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Messaged you!