Me(21F) and my bf(27M) are in a ldr currently and this is my first time with an older man. There is this girl that he is really close to who is 17 but my bf tells is 18 or above(He met her after he met me which is like 6 months). He works somewhere else and we both live here. So he used to spend a lot of time w her saying that she is going through a lot w family issues and all. I feel insecure because he used to flirt w a friend of mine who is 18 but that was before me. This gives me an idea that he might actually be into younger girls which kinda creeps me out. Also this 17 girl is a teen and very suggestively sexual on social media which might have something to do with her teen hormones but yeah I can hardly sympathise.
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Red flag for days
why’s this man as a 27 y/o friends with 17 y/o girls? yikes,he sounds like bad news.
He’s ephebophilic and he always will be, run
When people show you who they are the first time, believe them. Dump him and run.
red flag and i say as this as a 33m that generally just happens to get along with younger people of both genders.
Nonce alert drop him