I am an incredibly introverted person to the point that I am fine with going days without communicating with anyone. And if I don’t get enough quiet or alone time, I get frustrated.
At the same time I really like the idea of ending up with someone, getting married, all that stuff.
Is this even possible?
Long story Short: I am really introverted and independent… but like the idea of ending up with someone. Is that even possible?
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Is it possible yes, is it easy no. Im the same and push people away to get alone time, gotta get past that and it’s hard but time to push through it and get out a bit, im starting small (taking my dog rn for a run 🤣) you may just get lucky and someone loves you the way you are exactly, you’ve still gotta get out and meet said person though
Definitely possible! I am the same exact way as you, and my gf is the complete opposite. Can’t really say that she likes it when I need my «me-time», but she respects it nevertheless.
The important part is that you’re open about it in your future relationships. I’ll admit, in the beginning of my relationship I didn’t do this. I barely got any alone time and it burnt me out, made me irritated and ultimately drove me nuts. So for your sake and also the relationship, make sure you set boundaries by prioritizing your self and your peace sometimes!