Does this seem too intense too soon?
I (40M) have been seeing a woman (36F) for about a month. She seemed a little guarded which was a little frustrating but overall she was receptive. She seemed annoyed by me once or twice, but she was direct and overall really got along. We went on 3-4 dates and had sex.
I stopped contacting her for a few days because I was busy and needed to think about things, and she started reaching out which she never did before. She asked how I was and suggested she wanted to see me again which I replied and said ok. A few days later she told me again that she enjoyed my company but felt I wasn’t interested and asked how I felt.
Is this a red flag that she is bringing this up and needing assurance/validation so early in dating? Is she asking for exclusivity? Not sure I’m ready for that after such a short time
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I’m really into open and honest communication. I don’t understand not just telling someone how you’re feeling and would have done exactly what she did. Your level of communication changed so it doesn’t strike me as odd she’d ask if you were still into it since it makes no sense to keep pursuing someone who isn’t and the best way to find that out is to ask.