And how do you get attracted to someone, is it instant or gradual?

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  4. Intelligent and assertive but not too assertive. Confident and sticks up for herself as well and isn’t insecure about what other women think about her. Not gonna lie but probably someone who is like my mother but instead of being type A personality I’d prefer someone with type B and is more chill and doesn’t constantly want to be socially interacting but when she does seems like a type A personality.

  7. She just has to be a good person. Kindness is always something that attracts me.

  8. Kinda rough around the edges. My long-term partners were a Border Patrol agent, a supervisor of farm laborers, and a corrections nurse (whom I married). Briefer relationships were with very similar women. Independent, foul-mouthed, unsentimental, “brutally honest and preferring the brutality over honesty,” tough but not posturing, jeans-and-a-T-shirt kinda gal. They all like crazy white girl country music.

    Not saying that I’d refuse to date a woman on the more traditionally feminine side, but they’ve never seemed interested, and I’m happy with what I seem to keep attracting.

    > How do you get attracted to someone?

    I knew that I wanted to marry my wife within five minutes of meeting her. Took seven months to get her to feel similarly inclined enough to date my dumb ass.

  12. They have to be smart, dark humored/sarcastic, and athletic, and be able to get down and dirty, that’s it. Anything else is a bonus. My current fiancé is an engineer, has the same twisted sense of humor I do, just as smart if not smarter than I am, and played volleyball, cheerleading, and lacrosse in high school followed by rugby in college, and then finally loves helping around the house, changing the toilet by herself, loves going on hikes, on her hands and knees wading through mud looking for worms to fish with, and tearing apart the house for her new DIY project.

  14. Sense of humor first and foremost. Then decent hygene and work ethics. Has to either enjoy playing or watching someone play videogames. Looks not super important as long as you’re confident in your own skin and we have an attraction/chemistry. Looking at my relationship history i guess my type is typically between 5 and 5’8 height, most were petite and brunette or dirty blonde.

    Depends on the person I’ve had instant and gradual attractions. My wife when we first met it was pretty much instantaneous our attraction and chemistry pulled us together.

  15. Tall, (>5’9”) athletic, intelligent and can have a meaningful conversation.

  19. About the same height as me… thin/athletic build… short dark hair… dark features… short facial hair or stubble. Dark eyes… nice smile. A bit of body hair and a cute bum.

    My kind of humour… witty, offensive, sarcastic… doesn’t take shit too seriously. Capable of having deep conversations about anything from news, politics, to music, science, and philosophy, to sex and anything else.

  20. It’s instant but if it doesn’t move forward it can pass with time. I appreciate aged beauty , cute smile , sticky sweet ( to me anyway) , dressed with intent , not afraid to be forward.

  22. intelligent, and shy, with whom i can talk about anything, and beautiful in their own way.

    I learned that while i find brunettes more attractive than blondes or reds, if the chemistry is good, it doesnt matter.

    physically somewhat sporty. Not too much, but also she shouldnt be one of those who doesnt care about what she eats and then wonders some day why her clothes wont fit.

  23. Call me unusual but i like women who are tall and also muscular/have toned bodies

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