I feel these two things go hand in hand. I lack patience to talk w/ someone day-in and day-out because I don’t feel interested in them and have things to talk to them about. It feels like a chore when I do.
Although they’re interesting people and I get along w/ them, I don’t feel the drive to ask questions and soak in all the info they give me.
So, these are my questions:
1. How do I become curious about people?
2. How do I ask the right questions to deepen our relationship?
3. How do I keep showing up and putting effort into building a relationship?