I’m 22 she’s 26, in the beggining i was kinda reticent because i come from a background where it’s considered kind of wrong to see someone older than you. We quickly fell in love and i noticed she had multiple bfs as a way of protecting herself due to previous disappointments.
I recently noticed there’s this guy she still stuck with in the beggining i was against her communicating with him but trusted her to handle things the right way so i confronted her and she told me she loves us both and couldn’t choose.
I am confused should i let her go she really does alot of stuff that prove to me she loves me i really do not know what to think right now. We haven’t spoken to each other since the day she told me she loves him but she constantly assures me she loves me more and prefers being with me. Please help
Tl;DR: This guy in question is my cousin and he is not aware we are dating me and her
She seems sincere but i do not know what to think anymore
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Cut her loose. You deserve someone who’s fully committed to you, not stuck between you and another person. Trust your gut and move on.
That’s not normal behavior. Dump her, move on with your life.
If she can’t decide, decide for her, let her go! There is a love for a friend and a love for a partner & if someone has to choose which one is best for her future. That only puts you second, don’t ever be second in a relationship. If someone needs to choose over you, then that someone is not dedicated enough to be in a relationship with you. If her love for him is the same for you, then she probably shares herself with him just like she does with you. No one should ever wonder if they love you and if they do, then there’s your answer!
Stop being OK with being treated like an Option. You deserve better.
Why are you dating your cousins girl? Also you’re 22. Don’t be with someone who can’t choose between you and your cousin lol. Make better decisions.