So am 18, so there’s a group I usually chill with, walk or eat with at school (college). Today a friend called me out that am the weak link in the group. Am usually quite and observant, childlike and just reserved. One of the reasons is last semester the was some drama because most of our classmates are resentful, and narcissistic. I try to avoid being caught in the cross fire. Am usually a chill and modest guy I try to keep things peaceful. I talk to a few people in class and am aware not everyone has good intentions. So there some people I talk to cause we share similar interests and this guy used to be in our friend group but just went off the grid like the was no friendship, I honestly don’t care about that. My other friends say am weak cause I talk to him plus am approachable by other people or so. Am fully aware not everyone has honest intentions so I try to put them at an arms length but my friends said am the weak one.
Kinda stung but I don’t really feel like it’s my responsibility on how the perceive me, am not saying there bad people but I just didn’t take it well.
I just like some harmony.
How do I take this and any advice