I was married for 20 years and recently got divorced after being cheated on numerous times and my wife left me for her affair partner.
I got out of the situation with the help of my best friend who was always there for me, and whom I trust more than anyone in the world. We met 2 years ago at the end of my marriage.
This woman is the most amazing human being I have ever met. She is not only loving and caring, but smart as hell and the hottest most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on. We recently confessed our love and I have never been happier in my life.
We have tried to be intimate a few times now, but I am completely overwhelmed. Seeing her naked, looking at her face while I give her pleasure, her smell and touch- my heart just starts racing like crazy, I get hot flashes, start sweating and I just can’t get him up….
She is really wonderful about it and massages me gently to calm me down, but I would so love to be close with her and just can’t…
How do I stay calm in her presence?
I had a sex affair a few months back and was able to perform with no problems whatsoever- my love knows every detail of this affair and it’s really hard for me to explain why that worked with no problem while I just can’t sleep with her.
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Your theme song is *Time Is On My Side*. Rolling Stones.
It’s called fear bud.
You are afraid that loving this woman and the long road to marriage will result in the same disaster as your previous. This is what’s causing your Ed.
As the old saying goes … clear your mind and your ass will follow. Live in the moment of just primal sex with this woman take the emotion out of it and slick Willie will work like new
Just give yourself time. You’ll be fine.
First of all, this is a good problem to have, so I wouldn’t worry too too much about it. You are so in love with her that it is overwhelming, that’s really great. This will start to calm down I assume and things will start to balance out. I would just continue to be intimate with her in whatever form that takes and let it naturally work itself out. But continue communicating with her about it, it must feel great to her that you are so in love with her
Practice breathing techniques. You are getting so worked up you’re drawing blood flow away from where it needs to go.
Breathe into your diaphragm, stay calm and go slow. Don’t think about everything and just focus on your breath and you will be ok 🙂
Performance anxiety 😔😔.. Simple to say but relax. Someone wants to be with you!! Maybe focus on foreplay pleasing her.. Add some toys etc..
Go to the adult store snd get a blue rhino, youll get hard
I had this happen it was embarrassing af… (BUT) she’s your woman.. so your good. You’ll get your redemption and you make sure you don’t stop till the eyes are in the back of her head looking at her brain. It happens to a lot of people my man. It’s normal it’ll happen a few times since it’s new.
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Cannabis helps calm the nerves, need something that doesn’t hit hard though, less is more.
Jack Herrer is a good one.
Your story sounds so very familiar, scarily too familiar. I had the same thing happen to me. Luckily, my new love was very patient with me and graciously understood. For me, I promised to be true to one woman and I never cheated on her. I took my vows seriously and now I was going to sleep with another woman. As soon as I entered her, I freaked in my head. She was cool about it. A day later, we were in bed spooning and all I could think about was taking her panties off and entering her from behind. She asked if I was sure and I said yes. She climbed on top of me and rocked my world. It was the best sex of my life. Just breathe, relax and let the past go. It’s okay. I’m now having some of the best sex with the most amazing woman in the world. Don’t look back.