He (24m) cancelled our date last minute saying that “something came up and it’s been a hectic week”. Things have been going well between us but we have been slow on physical touch and only kissed on the second date.
I (22f) know he wants to be more physical and I told him that I wanted to take things slow on the second date. I think he took that as a sign for me to set the pace on physicality but I’m pretty shy so I find it difficult to initiate although I do want to elevate things physically with him. But because of this I’m not sure if he thinks that we’re going to slow and is slowly becoming disinterested at the pace we’re at. Even I want to take things to the next level.
He hasn’t reached out yet to set up another date and we haven’t talked since 2 days ago when he cancelled on our date.
Should I reach out to him or leave the onus on him?
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Did he cancel your 5th date, or is this the 5th time cancelling?
Go for the things you want, homie. And be honest with him about what you want.