I have always enjoyed being eaten out and every guy I have been with does it pretty consistently, but I like sitting on their face instead. I just like moving my hips more that way and I feel it’s way hotter, but I notice a lot of guys don’t ask or it’s usually in a lying down position when the deed is being done.

Are guys opposed to doing this? Obviously it’s not a huge dealbreaker for me, but it is a huge turn on. What is the best way to bring this up? During sex or after?

38 comments
  1. Like this:

    “I would like to sit on your face. Moving my hips feels way hotter.”

  2. I’m going to be real and this might not be the best advice but just when your with him just ask. I feel like that’s every guys dream to have a girl say that to them. It’s like what they have been preparing for their whole life.

  3. Just tell him exactly what you want more of. I’m sure he’d like it too and no guy worth his salt would take issue with his partner being direct since he likely wants it too.

  4. If the guy likes giving oral, then there is a high likelihood he would love to have you sit on his face. Just ask. It is seriously hot!

  5. >Are guys opposed to doing this?

    I would have to imagine that the number of guys opposed to this would have to be in the small minority.

    >it’s usually in a lying down position when the deed is being done.

    Honestly, unless the girl in the equation weighs quite a lot, I think sitting on my face is probably the most comfortable way to do it for the guy. Hell, we get to lie down this way. The lying down position sometimes hurts my neck.

  6. Would you mind talking with my GF? I’ve gotta all but corner her to sit on mine. And I’d get off just like that myself if she’d get over her own insecurities about it.

  7. What worked for me is I was eating a girl out missionary. And somewhere along the lines, I think she was sucking me off, I caught a good view of her curves and I just kinda instinctively positioned my head closer to her pussy and she knew to sit on my face… it was glorious!!

  8. I love having my wife sit on my face and this has turned into probably her favorite position to be eaten out.

    Sure, some men might like it, love it, or hate it.

    But, I think when it comes to oral sex in general, people typically go more so with what the receiver wants.

    If you want to sit on the guys face, it is probably going to be up to you to suggest it. Unless, like me, the guy is just really into it.

    Personally, I think you could bring it up either before or after. I enjoy it, so asking if you can crawl on top during the heat of the moment would be hot to me.

    As I said, either way should work. Just be okay with if the guy says no. But, if the guy is into eating you out already, I bet the majority will be cool with you sitting on their face.

  9. just ask… anytime my gf asks “do you want me to sit on your face?” / “can i sit on your face?” etc. it’s an immediate “yes!!” and at least half, probably more than half the time it’s me asking her to sit on my face or let me give her head… personally i love getting my face sat on, i love the feeling of it and how when she’s wet it drips down my chin and neck but it took me a few months before i got comfortable enough to ask her to sit on my face… i’m guessing some guys probably want it but don’t feel comfortable asking for it, especially if like you said, every guy you’ve been with has no problem going down on you and is probably at least somewhat enthusiastic about it

  10. As a man, I would suggest this.

    “I want to ride your face….all the time. Please and thank you.”

  11. Tell the lucky guy, “Lie down on your back. I’m gonna sit on your face.”

  12. I swear we need an automod bot that immediately locks these threads and simply replies:

    “Just fucking ask them”

  13. 🎶🎶Sit on my face and tell me that you love me, I’ll sit on your face and tell you that I love you too🎶🎶

  14. as he’s eating you, just ask if it would be more comfortable for him to lay down and sit on his face. say you’ve always wanted to try it too

    I have yet to ask someone too but it seems so hot

  15. I like giving oral and a woman sitting on my face is hot. I would dare say that a guy who is into it probably would have asked you to do it already.

    But just ask for a mustache ride.

  16. You just twll him to lay down.. give him a little, maybe even climb on top for a minute. The say “oh hey, look at this headboard”. Slide up, make sure your knees go over his shoulders, grab the headboard, and ride his face. Afterwards, tell him how amazing it was.. he’ll want to please you and do it more often. Its hy far my favorite

  17. Have you ever just done it? I find that super hot when my wife does it, just wants it that much to go for it, grab my hair, etc

  18. There’s two types of guys: Ones that already love having a woman sit on their face and ones that don’t know it yet. Just ask because the former is usually more common.

  19. Its literally my favorite thing to do. My wife sits on my face facing my legs, i can‘t get enough of that. Just tell your guy you wanna do it, i bet he‘s gonna enjoy it.

  20. Okay. Here’s exactly what you do. Get him next to the bed, push him onto it, and start heating things up. Tell him you want his face buried under your thighs, push him over (assuming your pants/underwear is already off), and climb on top.
    After you finish tell him that’s how you like it, I can guarantee he’ll want that every time.

  21. I wish I could say what all of these comments say without getting rejected by my husband 🙁

  22. Typically it’s considered “best” to talk about sex (like making new requests) when you aren’t in the middle of sex. That way there’s no pressure or “spur of the moment” decision making when someone is caught up in the moment. But, it’s kind of just a judgement call based on your communication and the other person.

    I would just ask straight out. It’s not an unusual request. If the guy is worried you’ll hurt him, you could come up with a system like him tapping your leg to let you know “hey, you gotta back off a little, I can’t breathe.” Or something like that.

    The more you talk to your partner, the better things will be. It’s best not to beat around the bush (no pun intended), because direct communication is less confusing and leads to a quicker resolution.

  23. Just say those words 😁 “hey, I want to sit on your face” and bite your lip..🫡🫠

  24. said it before, ladies, i’ll say it again. this isnt rocket science. you want your man to do something, just ask lol.

  25. How do I ask a hungry dog if it wants steak.

    I’m starting to get sick of these questions.

  26. How can you tell a guy you want to sit on his face more?

    “Hey guy, I want to sit on your face more.” No drama, just straight up tell him. I he declines, find an other guy. More than enough guys to sit on.

  27. When my wife sits on my face I’m turned on so much it ought to be illegal. Just tell him. 98% of guys would LOVE this.

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