I F23 am looking for new ideas on how to make oral sex fun and interesting when I’m preforming on my partner M23. We’ve tried a few different positions including six-nine.
Are there things I could do, add, or say that would make it even more exciting for him? What really makes blowjobs amazing for guys?
*We aren’t ready for penetration of any sort and aren’t interested in anal play.
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Maybe watch a video on cock worship and get ideas if you’re open to that.
Kissing; ice cube; cat eyes; deep throat; kneeling over your chest; him sitting on the side of the bed; you sitting on the side of the bed; kneeling in front of him; no hands; using one or two hands; menthol cough drop;
Letting your nipples brush/lightly touch the cock is great
You could try to edge him ? Stop when he is close and Just kiss or lick it slowly.
I remember your last post. Is swallowing easier now ?
If you want to change what you are doing, consider these,
– go deliberately slower than usual. So that he gets a lot more time than usual to be in your mouth. It will feel more meek in the beginning, but will wear on him over time, until it suddenly overwhelms. And…you’ll be able to keep him lingering on that overwhelming feeling longer than usual.
– Go deliberately faster than usual. No need to let him know what to expect. Aaaaand, sometimes you just don’t have time for a longer event.
– Don’t think of an ejaculation as an end. Show him that a stiffie is technically speaking not a necessity to get him off, and find out if the second or third or fourth time blowing is comparably exciting.
You can also work a bit with circumstances,
– When he is fresh out of the shower, surely you need to…uh…inspect him? Just a few strokes, you know, with a promise of more AFTER whatever you two are going out and about for.
– adding to the idea above, you can always try some start-stopping. Have him in your mouth every hour or so throughout the day. Just enough for him to notice that your mouth is there. Just enough for him to see a pattern. Just enough for him to tag along like a love-sick puppy all day…
– restrain him with intensity: have him stand up (or sit on a stool with no backrest) and show him what your mouth can do. It’ll be a bit of a mind-block, being forced to divert attention away from what you are doing to the task of not falling over.
– how about a *distraction blow*? When he’s working on a boring spread sheet, concentrated on playing a video game or watching his favourite team on the telly. Be gentle, until he thinks that he can manage doing both. Then show him that YOU are in fact in control.
– would require a sincere consent talk before it happens: perhaps it can be fun to wake him up with your mouth?