So my girlfriend (28) and I (27) have been together for about 6 years now. We’ve had some issues in the past regarding the frequency of us having sex. I would like to spice thing up by doing freaky and nasty stuff. Like posting video’s on Reddit 😛, having outdoor sex, going to clubs, have threesomes etc. etc. But my girlfriend doesn’t want to know about any of that.
Do you guys think i should try to convince her to start trying some of these thing? And if so, how? I get it that we should start with small things. But right know she doesn’t even really want to talk about it. So i’d like to know how some of you have dealt with something like this in the past..
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It sounds like you’ve tried to talk to her already and she’s already said no. If she doesn’t want to do these things you’re not going to get a bunch of strangers on the internet to convince her if you, as her partner, can’t even do that.
Convincing her will do you one thing. Being able to make solo videos from yourself.
Convincing anyone to to something they don’t like (especially if it results with them being on the internet for everyone to see) will get you nowhere.
Imagine your gf wants to peg you while you absolutely don’t like the idea. Now she wants to do it while you are bound and wants to put it on reddit so everyone can see you. Doesn’t sound so nice anymore.