What are some Romantic ways you or someone initiates sex?

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1. Massage is one of the most common.

   You can dress in something sexy and feed her in bed. Something like chocolate dipped strawberries.

   Take her to a nice hotel.

   Give her a shower and wash her hair.

   Rent a place with a private Jacuzzi.

   Both get dressed up and take her on a nice date. Say sweet sexy things that you want to do to her when you get home, then attack her with them as soon as the door closes behind you.

   Come up behind her and kiss her neck and say naughty things to her.

   If she’s doing a chore, take over and tell her to put on lingerie you just bought her, then meet her when you’re done.

2. It is the subtle things. Foreplay can start well before it goes to the bedroom.

   You kiss her neck as she’s brushing her teeth in the morning as you pass by. Hand gently touches her hip then trails along her butt.

   You brush up against her arm as you take away her dishes after she is done with breakfast.

   She reads the hand written note you left in her jacket. Maybe with a snack bar to tide her over till lunch.

   She sees the kissy face followed by the tongue emoji letting her know that you would give her a french kiss.

   You stop what you are doing when she comes home to devote 100% of your attention to her (unless you were like in the middle of cooking supper) and you ask her how her day has been.

   You tease her by saying if she plays her cards right you will give her a backrub later .

   You fill up her water bottle because hydration is key.

   After the kids are in bed, you sit/lay next to her. She’s deep into her book but you don’t mind.

   You caress her leg and rub on her a bit. You go in for the back massage, straddling her butt with your knees to her sides. The shirt eventually comes off. Then the bra comes undone. You work on her until she puts the book down. You can gently thrust against her ever so slightly.

   Then you scootch down and massage her lower back and upper butt area. Massage her butt for a bit then see if she’s up for more.

3. I’ll come up behind her, wrap my arms around her, kiss back or her neck and ears. I may also squeeze her breasts and or put my hands down front of her pants and just give her a light, quick touch / rub

   If we’re on the couch, she usually has her shoes off so I’ll massage her feet. Sometimes she’ll reciprocate that by massaging my cock with her feet.

   When we’re in bed I’ll spoon her and grind, or just run my hand from her feet up her leg, side and back and shoulders.

   Probably a dozen other ways of initiating – for sex, we’re into less talk and a more action

4. Kiss her hand and then up her arm.

5. Role playing, definitely. And it doesn’t have to be hard. In games, your girlfriend can be the queen, and you are her favorite. Or you can be a prince and a mermaid. In general – open just fantasies. It will be not only romantic, but also fun.