After how many dates is it okay to let your weird out?

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2. I assume that’s why they’re interested in me.

3. My weird is always out.

4. I think you be who you are right away. No false advertisements. Let people know what they’re getting up front. Don’t trick people into being with you, tf.

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6. I imagine that everyone see my weird coming before it gets to that point.

7. Be you from the get go. Not all the way, don’t be picking your nose or scratching the sack or anything weird like that but be you 😂

8. Give me an example

9. Right away.

10. Define “weird”? Do you put butter in your coffee? That’s one level of weirdness. It is probably ok after you slept together. Do you run around the apartment building naked, scream “yeeeehaaaaa” and use feces as a warpaint? That’s a totally different level and you should probably try keeping it inside

11. Right away – if your weird doesn’t work for them then it’s better to find that out quickly.

12. Hell I use the weird to attract the girl in the first place lol

13. “He took it out.”

14. I’m not weird. It’s the rest of the world that has an issue.

15. The first one.

16. Don’t bait and switch your dates. Be yourself.

17. Sooner the better.

18. I’m not weird. You’re weird. Weirdo.

19. If you are really weird then you won’t be able to hide it.

20. Never cage your weird, always wear it out in the open. That’s Manlaw™️, isn’t it?

21. Immediately. Don’t date people who aren’t into the actual, real you.

22. After the wedding date.

23. 3rd date. 1st date for general feel, second date to say “I’m interested” , third date is for “this is me”

24. Pre-text.