How to be friendly and easy going but not naive?

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1. maybe when you set BOUNDARIES and dont be a yes man yet be WARM and purposeful about a conversation , it gives an aura of a not so naive person …. like i could be wrong but you project being NAIVE if you dont have boundaries about certain things but the moment u set boundaries for the goal of your conversation yet you approach the interaction from a WARMER perspective , u appear more centered and therefore not NAIVE

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   i’d like to add that i think that if u are very fluid about conversation without having a goal of what you want from conversation , ur basically making your self appear more of a people pleaser because you have no goal for your better experience out the particular conversation …. i think if u try to mix these qualities to ur conversation it will help u ….1) BEING AWARE OF WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF THE CONVERSATION ie setting an intention to ur conversation and

   2) approaching the another human being with a subtle WARMTH and desire to explore them from a perspective of a fellow human being