So my wife and I (38m and 37f) are going to try to get pregnant. I know we are a bit late to the game so to speak but we are stereotypical millennials in that way I guess… any how I’m quite nervous about the whole thing and would love to get some feed back / advise on one particular but crucial aspect:
When I am close to climax I start thinking about actually making a baby and I lose my “enthusiasm“ making it difficult to ”plant the seed” … for my entire life, up to this moment, c-pies have been the wrong thing to do… how do I overcome my previous training?
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They’ve always been a good thing
Honest advice: integrate some dirty talk into your lovemaking. Especially at the end. “You like that you dirty slut?” “I’m gonna cum in that pussy, you want my hot cum in there?” Stuff like that. It will keep you going, and hey, maybe your wife will like it too?
Ask her to encourage you: fill me up! Give me that cum!
things like that.
Instead of pulling out, just leave it in.
I dunno I always thought it was hot that I was “breeding” my wife. Kinda gross terminology but it turned me on plenty
Have her get on top
Just tell your wife to sing WAP to you.
Tell your wife that when you give her a signal, she needs to wrap her legs around your waist, grab your head and pull you close, and scream “PUT A FUCKING BABY IN ME NOW” until you cum.
It feels so much better dude. You will learn quick and then get snipped when your done.
Maybe use a condom until you’re comfortable finishing inside her? Maybe one will break? And besides, climaxing together is one of life’s pleasures.
The “c-pie” is you two doing it as designed by nature in the continuation of a process that goes back to the dawn of life itself.
More natural than most things you do that day.
lol, I’d kill to be in your position again for about five minutes.
Bro this is in your DNA. It will feel amazing and you’d probably be very upset when you realize what you’ve been missing out on.
It’s like when my health conscious sister waited until my nephew was 7 years old to give him a taste of McDonalds.
Imagine she is the borg queen
If you came to reddit to ask how to cum inside your wife then I don’t think you’re ready for parenthood.
I don’t want kids at all but I love giving my wife creampies. There’s something to be said about desiring a woman so intensely that you would be willing to make yourself potentially miserable for 18 years for a few moments of intense pleasure.
That being said, I’m glad my wife has an IUD.
For 38 years you haven’t been cumming in anyone? Man, you’re missing out
Without coming across an insensitive, what the bloody hell are you talking about?
Have you tried the Cowgirl position?
This comment section is solid gold, boys. Took an unfortunate situation and really made a great read.
Would you like me to show you? What time would y’all like me to come over?
Have you not been using an IUD?
I find it most comfortable to start cumming to my VHS collection on the other side of the room and then I run as fast as I can and hurry and put it in. 5/5 positive results so far.
This is so weird to read.
I was born in 1981. So according to some sources I’m a millennial. But whatever.
Anyways I had my first child at 17. Second child at 19.
Then I had my first granddaughter at 39.
I never once thought about “planting the seed” while having sex. That just sounds fucked up.
Dude, make passionate love to your wife. Make sure she finishes first then have fun with your part. And hopefully y’all will produce a child. All your “training” has led to this part. Enjoy it.
Anyways I’ve been married for 25 years this November, so take it or not.
You need to have your wife tell you or yell “cum inside me now”
If she doesn’t do that then say “do you want me to cum inside you?” In an animalistic voice while having sex
You basically need to go all out and f the sh*t out of her.
Lots and lots of practice!
Bro, just say cream pie. You’re talking like you’re in 7th grade, Jesus Christ. Just cum in your wife and have a baby. I wish you the best.
Uh, are you sure **you** actually want kids?
I don’t know that I’ve ever had the problem you’re describing with finishing. My problem has always been the other way around. So if you’re having a hard time reaching climax, instead of having to delay your gratification, may be a deeper issue at play here.
Just my two cents, as an r/ChildFree dude.