Hi there! I’m not sure my title is worded correctly so please bear with me.

I feel as though it’s time for me to accept I have a “type” when it comes to dating/romantic interests. My question for the fine people of Reddit is are there dating apps or groups a middle-aged white American woman can be taken seriously when looking for a younger (early 40s) single Indian guy? By taken seriously I mean viewed as someone worth genuinely getting to know and not a fast track to the US (unfortunately, this has been my experience thus far).

I briefly tried IndianCupid and that was a shitshow and doesn’t seem like a legit site. I belong to groups based on interests such as travel but I don’t want to be that creep that prowls for a partner in a non dating related group.

I have many friends of all cultures as I’m super open-minded and I thrive on learning new things, traveling to new places, learning about new cultures. However, as far back as 20 years ago I was drawn to Indian men that I met in the workplace (I’m in IT). However, we all know the workplace is a no-no for anything other than work. I currently have many Indian friends (female and male) but they’ve not helped me in my quest as there just aren’t many single/divorced Indian men in this age group I’m seeking. Obviously, there are some cultural reasons for this in part.

So, anyone have any ideas? I’ve Googled of course but have only found sites for Indian parents to search matches for their adult children.

Thanks in advance!

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