How do you know you are happily part of a long term relationship? And how do you know your partner is?

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1. Because we talk about it regularly.

2. When u feel love is not at all complicated and u unintentionally know how ur partner thinks/reacts.. To any situation.. Its all about communication and loyalty to the commitment.. Of living with each for a long run.. U will feel he/she is an inseparable part now.. And u can identify them if ur partner as well gives equal efforts and knows u well and is actively participating in everything.. Even tho u both are silently doing ur own work/enjoying….

   I am lucky to have found someone i feel thesee..

3. Ask yourself and ask the other person.

4. Communication. Regular check ins with each other; how are you feeling? Is there anything I’ve been doing lately to annoy you? Are all your needs being met? Etc etc

5. Communication, communication, communication.

6. Married twenty years. Transparency colored with loved and depth of communication. There really is such a thing as unconditional love, he taught me through experience.

7. We both express how much we are excited to future things constantly. And compared to my ex who was 3 years long… I don’t know how to explain it but this just feels different. Feels real, deep, and I feel like I am me. We have so much fun together and get genuinely get each other. He always lights up my gray days and I do his. We hit a year next week.