Hey! So I’ve got some kinks and one main fetish. I’ve recently been wanting to try out some fetish/kink play solo, but have been concerned about how best to reduce risk of physical harm when it comes to some of the kinks (or if the risk of harm is too significant/outweighs the benefit of exploration).
I’m wanting to find ways to reduce risks that can be reduced, but am so far, unable to find any helpful information or tips/guides for engaging in certain kinks more safely. Web searching is a bit of a nightmare for useful results.

Is there anywhere that has collections of tips, information or resources on different kinks and safety tips for engaging with them in play?
I really wish that fetish and kink wasn’t such a taboo that when wanting to be safe and comfortable, that it’s so difficult to find out how to. I don’t want to go to my doctor and ask how best I can do X or Y horny thing and minimise risk, and unfortunately, most times I’ve found when it comes to anything that might seem like endorsing harm in any way, the answer is usually a non-answer.
I just want to be able to explore some of the kinks I’ve acquired and also not mess myself up.

Thanks!

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  1. There are a number of how-to BDSM books, if that’s what you mean by ‘fetish/kink’. You can find them by googling. I haven’t read any of the recent ones, so I’m in no position to recommend.

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