Me (21 Male) met a girl on tinder 2 months ago.
On the first instance we matched and later on she asked me if I wanted to go to watch a movie. I’m shy in most aspects of my life and dating is something that happens as well, she grabed my hand and there was like a kiss attempt, I remember returning home with a big smile and feeling on me.
A week later we were talking about life and our life projects, she ask me if I was looking for a serious relationship which I said “Yes, I would like something serious if it happens of course.” And she agreed saying the same.
This talk was on a saturday, later that week it comes her birthday and we were supposed to do something special, she never answer back my text. 3 weeks has passed by and no reply until this monday she reply to me with a meme of our first date which makes me feel confused.
After she sent that meme I replied “Haha funny”, yesterday she sent me a message asking if I wanted to watch a movie again.
I know that I’m worth it, I’m a great person with values to respect others. This girl makes me feel confused. I want to have dignity and just ignore her like she did to me, if I accept going out with her is my dignity going away? Is it stupid to ask her what happened?