I have a problem. I (19m) have feelings for my best friend (19F). To explain the whole situation. We started dating six months ago, then she said we better stay friends after 3 weeks. We had little contact for a while, but since 3 we have a lot of contact again (we see each other at least 3 times a week). Our friends think it’s a vague situation. We also do things that seem like we’re in a relationship. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend even if it ruins the friendship.
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I have a friend with similar story. When he was 16 he started befriending her. Now he’s 21 and they have been in a relationship for 3 years. But there she suggested dating.
In my view, u should try. U have to show ur intentions. Mb its a time. If she refuses u, talk with her openly, maybe she is not ready and afraid about ur relationship. I think its not a big problem