Almost 25 and never asked someone out or been in a relationship. The desire to get out there and overcome social anxiety challenges is there, the know how is not.

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1. Well different people get different results if your in shape and have good communication and can dress well you will be accepted by more people. Everyone gets rejected even the very best it happens. Just practice approaching and having a conversation you don’t even have to try pickups at first just talk to people or ask them for directions and do it a lot to get comfortable. If you go do it 100 times in a day you will have some success just know that you miss every oppertunity that you let pass you by.

2. Literally the one and only way you’re gonna succeed at this is purposely failing the first 50 girls you talk to. This will alleviate pressure and anxiety.

   Just go up to a girl and purposely fail. Purposely look bad to a girl you know you will never see again. Say hey. She says hi. Say i have to fart. And walk away.

3. If you’re talking about romantic relationships, the only safe way I can see is going through the friendship route. Assuming you are a hetero male make a bunch of friends with girls and they are more likely to ask you out than a random stranger asking you out.

   Now why the friendship route? Aren’t friends meant to be friends? Sometimes during friendships , I think more often than not, people get crushes on each other as they grow to really understand who they are as a person. Sometimes it’s not even sexual but platonic.

   That would be the safer route but require A LOT of time investment.

4. omg I thought I was the only person over 20 who had never been in a relationship/on a date 😵‍💫