I (23) think I want my bf (m32) to pee on me. I really like golden shower porn but I admit I’m too scared to ask. How should I go about this?

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  1. I would maybe segway into it by asking him what he thinks about different types of porn and throw in golden showers to feel him out. Then I think you express that you would like to try it. See what he says.

  2. Both of you should write a list to share with each other. A list of things you find acceptable and unacceptable in the bedroom. If you put watersports in your yes, it makes it clear you are for it. You can also find out what he is wanting or willing to do

  3. There’s really only one way. “Honey you know what really turns me on? Having my partner pee on me. Drink this 4 litre jug of water and meet me in the shower in 20 minutes.” Who knows? Maybe he’ll like a go?

  4. Ooo girl tell him you want a GOLDEN SHOWER hehe🤭. Let him pee inside you too you might like it. I know I do

  5. Get him to take a shower with you. Then pee in the shower. Try to get a little on him. When he realizes it, say something like “Oops, that was naughty” and then get on your knees in front of him. Ask him if he needs to return the favor? Lean back and open your mouth. Hopefully, he gets the hint.

  6. Next time you’re in the shower with him ask if you can hold his cock while he pees. I’ve had multiple partners do that. From there you can see how he reacts and perhaps ask him.

  7. “Hey, so, I really want to try something different in the bedroom but I’m really nervous and embarrassed to ask.. I am worried you’re going to be disgusted with me. I havent ever done this before but would you please pee on me? This isnt a joke. I would really like to try that if you’re comfortable. If you’re not comfortable that’s ok we don’t have to. But please don’t put me down for it..

    I asked my late husband to pee on me before lmao I asked to do a lot of things with him and if he said no he didn’t make fun of me, put me down, wasn’t disgusted with me..

    That’s being a good partner.

  8. My wife and I have a very healthy stream (haha) of communication. There’s almost nothing we would be too embarrassed to tell each other.

    I just straight up said, hey can you pee on me? So, we hopped in the tub and I found out that it’s fucking awesome. But then like 30 seconds after the pee smell gets really strong even if she’s mega hydrated. So the fun only lasts a short while until a shower becomes necessary.

  9. Step 1) Have a shower with him.
    Step 2) Ask him if he pees in the shower
    If he says “Yes”
    Step 3) Ask him if you can watch him pee
    Step 4) Put your hand out while he’s peeing and see how he reacts.
    Go from there.

  10. Send him a kinky meme about it? Then its jokey but also…not

    Or the idea about discussing different types of porn…or you can suggest watching porn together and then throw on something you know includes it but doesn’t include it in the title?

    If he’d make you feel bad about your kinks, he’s not the one. Nothing wrong with not sharing that kink if that’s the case, but he shouldn’t make you feel bad about it either

  11. just ask. if he’s a pussy he’ll say no. men are not difficult. if u want to fuck ask. if u want smth done to you tell him you want smth done to you

  12. Tell him he needs to mark his territory and peeing is the most definitive way?

    My fiance and I have had talks about boundaries. Neither of us are into fluid or scat play. I am the vanilla one in our relationship. Be open and honest with him. He may laugh, he may be shocked, but open and honest communication is pretty important. If it becomes an itch that can’t be scratched you may end up cheating or leaving hom over it

  13. If you guys drink, do that, then get in the shower, get on your knees and ask him to pee on you. Peed in my girls butt once. Humans are curious creatures.

  14. Watch porn together where there is a peeing scene. The ask if he would like to try that.

  15. You could probably start by taking a shower together. Doing it in there won’t seem like as big a deal because it’s easy cleanup.

  16. Next time he is about to pee, ask to watch. Then stick a finger into the stream. Tell him it feels good. Nice and warm.

    Depending on your proclivities, you might try sticking your now-wet finger into your mouth, smile, and wink flirtaceously.

    Next time in the shower together, ask him to pee and say you want to hold his cock as he does so. Then “accidentally” splash some pee onto your body. Laugh as this happens. Mention that it was a turn-on.

    Next time, shower together and do the same. This time, though, kneel down in front of him and allow his pee to cover you. Tell him how good it feels. If you’re into the idea of drinking piss, let some of his pee enter your mouth, swallow it, and tell him how good it tastes.

    Now you have a guy who is willing to give you golden showers.

    If you want to give him golden showers, you can also pee in the shower and teasingly splash him with a little. Ask him if he liked it.

  17. Shower together, have him do it “as a joke” then say “shit, that is actually hot”. There, new kink badge added lol

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