I’m (34/M) a newbie to dating and relationships despite being in my 30s. So, kindly be patient with me here.
I live in India and shuttle between two cities A (permanent) and B (temporary but I frequent there and will move there if career-wise things fare well in a few months).
Swiped right on a girl (32/F) when I was in city B. She matched with me when I came back to city A. We hit it right off the bat. Our values match and look eye-to-eye on most things.
It’ll be a month till I go back to B but I want to keep the conversation going because she looks like a great person and don’t want the conversation to wilt.
We’re connected on Insta atm. I’d like to get to know her better and flirty without getting all creepy. How can I keep the conversation flowing so that it doesn’t become just another ghosted match? Thank you for all the help!
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Don’t cross the boundaries. Don’t call or text her a lot. Take thinks slow but at the same time don’t talk to her on and off. That’s the hardest part I guess.
At first try to share interesting things about your life rather than insisting on having a date or relationship… but be careful don’t stay in this phase for too long. You don’t want to go into friend zone.
Check if I am giving the right advice. I’m just talking based on my feeling. Some guys talk to women in a way that you feel they want to make a contract as soon as possible. It doesn’t feel good. You should be fun(be yourself) and reliable at the same time.