I’m F18 and bisexual. I’ve had sex + oral with women (many times) and only dated women. I have had flings with guys and given oral but it has never gone the full way. I now have a boyfriend (M19) and would like some need to knows so I’m prepared.
I’ll be going on the pill, we will use a condom and have talked about STD’s. We have had FaceTime sex and his dick is 6 inches, so that’s also something I’m concerned about.
There is also one other big concern I have. I’m not a fan of semen, but I would like to get over this “ick” (if that’s even the right word) to give him good head. In the past I have not let guys cum in my mouth because we weren’t dating but t’s definitely something I want to learn do without being grossed out!
I’m definitely going to talk with him about some of this, but I think this is one of those things where it’s just easier to get advice from strangers.
The things I would mostly like to know is: what feels best for him, and any important information I may need as a woman, but any advice is appreciated!
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I recommend taking it slow. Get used to it being on you from a handjob or something. Let him cum on your stomach and chest once you are more comfortable.
If it is just a mouth issue. Give him oral while he is on his back. Maybe try licking some of the cum from his penis.
The best way is to take it slow, if you try and have him cum in your mouth and you aren’t ready, it may cause you to gag, which is no fun for either person.
You can do all of the above: hand job, oral etc while he wears a condom. Over time if you get comfortable you move away from it completely.
Also might want to make sure he drinks plenty of water beforehand, as his diet will affect the overall taste. Maybe when you try the other things suggested here, you could put some on your finger to taste…kinda get used to it
As a guy let me assure you that you have no obligation to “take” semen orally off red to swallow If you want to begin one of the best ways is to do so on your own terms. Let him ejaculate on your chest then taste a tiny bit with a finger rather than having to deal with a whole load at once.
Learn to play with his semen rub it into your skin or enjoy it by getting him off with your hands but please try to avoid being noticeably grossed out. It is his seed- carrying his potential offspring so it is understandable that guys can feel personally rejected when you treat his semen as gross.
You do not have to take it orally if you dislike it. No one should engage in sexual acts they dislike. Try and strike a balance of acceptance of him and him cum while being comfortable refusing him climaxing in your mouth if you do not want him to.
He is 6 inches- so average- you want larger or worried about it in your mouth? Not sure I understand your concern there.
Cum use to gross me out too. One day my husband said he craved my juices and I said huh, he said yea it’s a part of you and that’s hot. Ever since that comment Iv looked at it as part of him and havnt been grossed out at all.
Diet, supplements, or meds can change the Taste so much. It’s worth reading on as far as that. It’s sticky, messy, and so much fun…
6 inches isn’t really anything crazy. Have you never used a dildo or a strap? I guess I just assumed you would have going solo or with the women you had sex with. However, as long as you’re actually turned on, shouldn’t be a problem.
Personally I have never tasted cum that didn’t taste bad. It’s really just not good. Some taste better than others but I wouldn’t say (in my experience) it’s ever *pleasant*. At least on my tastebuds anyways. If I didn’t have a dick in my mouth at the time, I’d probably make the same face someone does when they taste something sour lmao.
However, I love when a guy finishes in me (any of the options). It’s more a mental thing. I like that it comes from them, their pleasure. If it’s in my mouth, kinda an ego boost I was able to do that. Feels kinda marking of territory? Which might not be a hot thought for some girls but for me it is.
If you wanna do it for their sake. Just swallow it right away. It doesn’t really leave an aftertaste so you only have to taste it a few seconds. But don’t if you actually hate it or are uncomfortable.
As someone who is bisexual as well. To me, women taste, yanno, like bodily fluid. It’s not something you want a lollipop flavor of. But it’s never like “ew”. So definitely different. When I had first gotten with a guy I thought it would taste similar to women or like ocean water cause I always heard it described as salty. But to me. The closest I can describe it as is like battery acid. 😂