Gf and I both 22 just tried penetration yesterday. she never had any sort of penetration in her life and while we are both virgins i did everything right. Long foreplay getting her really wet and even using lube when putting the D in the V. At first i put my fingers and she said its feels fine with a lil bit of pain, when i put the D in she said She feels a lot of pain and wanted to try another time. I wouldnt force her but at night she said she had some bleeding and pain. Fortunately it stopped but is it normal and what should i do for the next time? I went in slowly, should i just go in quick or??? Help me please
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Was her hymen still intact? If so, that’s where the bleeding and pain came from.
Totally normal! Most girls bleed the first time and it probably will hurt a bit. Lube and being turned on will help. If you make her cum a few times first with fingers or oral that will help too. Just take it really really slow. Like put it in, wait for her to adjust and give you the go ahead then move forward a little bit and repeat until you’re in about all the way. Then slowly pull out some and slowly go back in. See what she says- also ik it’s not as romantic but doggy is more open and it won’t hurt as much as missionary. Vibrator will help distract if you’re open to it for her clit. It is gonna hurt some. She will probably bleed and be sore. But you can have good first time sex. Happy sex!