As the title says, I’d like it if my boyfriend initiated sex more often. I would say I initiate 80-90% of the time, and while I don’t mind being the one to get things growing, it does sort of eat away at my self esteem that he rarely initiates. I’ve never gotten the sense that he’s just trying to appease me by having sex, but it makes me question how attracted he is to me because he hardly ever tries to start anything. We’ve been together four years and I feel like we’ve had sex with roughly the same frequency the whole time.
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I have one fun suggestion you can try. Take a pen and paper and hand write him a little note that only he will find. Tell him something on the note that will stimulate the sexual side of his imagination or something witty that will catch his attention. I know that if I love the lady with all of my heart I will never stop pursuing her, and I will want to please her because it makes us feel together. Also is it possible that he is becoming complacent ? Complacency can happen. Also is he more submissive or more dominant ?
In my experience, having my girlfriend flat out tell that she needs more D more often would be the ultimate turn on. What’s wrong with men nowadays lol!!!
“I want you to initiate sex more often.”