So I’ve been dating this guy for 4 years almost when we first started dating he was still using a dating app I found, he said it was just his insecurities that I may have been on it. He had a password and lock on everything I mean everything and I’m not allowed to look unless he offers me to look. I have 2 children my youngest I can’t leave with him I work 50 hours a week in busy busy clinics I have to pay for childcare when I get home I have almost everything to do on top, he will quickly run the hover round every other day but just lounge and hallway, mow the lawn and put bins out a do a little washing up that’s it nothing more, he works 38 hours a week I ask for nothing but support as I also pay all the household bills, when I say I don’t feel loved or care for he says it’s my fault because I pull away and I do because how I feel and what I see, he pays me no attention as he’s always on his phone and video games and I’m constantly tired from dealing with everything and work and sex is barely none existent, has anybody got any ideas what’s going on or how I can fix this?
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Yeah..get rid of him
Yup, 100%. You and your babies deserve better. Don’t allow him to rob you of your youth, while you wait for him to get his shit together, and become a real man.