Over the last five or six years, I [36M] have started having a very fast refractory period. Basically, after I orgasm, I’m ready to have sex about two minutes later and can achieve a second orgasm in a normal amount of time. Sometimes, it almost feels like I’m still super horny and haven’t quite finished orgasming until I’ve done it twice. This also happens when I masturbate.
It’s not a big deal, some guys would even be happy about it, but I know that sometimes it’s probably a burden on my wife, who is usually done after one round. We communicate earnestly and she’s accommodating a lot of the time, but it’s certainly not fair for me to expect her to go for two rounds if she doesn’t want to.
I masturbate 2x daily on average, I take adderall and finisteride daily. I pee pretty frequently but I also drink a lot of water.
Any idea why this may be happening or what I can do about it? I’ve had my prostate checked twice (for unrelated reasons) and they said everything was normal.
I don’t necessarily want to lower my libido, but it would be nice to feel less horny after I orgasm. A lot of times we’re cuddling afterwards and I’m just like a horny teenager who wants to jump back into it. It sort of spoils the mood.
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I could easily have back to back orgasms 38 yo.
For me, it seems to be related to my physical training and how I am taking care of myself. In peak shape I could easily have sex 2-3 times in a row.
I think its just a sign of male health and vigor.
When I was single, a bit younger and dating multiple women, yes. Now that I’m 36 and I’m a relationship, no.
I firmly believe this is biology determined at birth. I almost always stay hard after my first orgasm. I usually stay hard after a second one. I am still like this at 56. I believe I was “blessed” with these genetics. Just like guys that are premature ejaculators, it’s how you are built.
Sometimes I’ll hit a hat trick when the stars align.