My boyfriend went on a trip last week and he’ll come back home in a few days. We haven’t had sex in weeks and i kind of want to surprise him by teasing him before he gets on his flight. I want to get him worked up on his way home(knowing that he also hasn’t masturbated in a while) to have the hottest and most intimate sex with him but i don’t know how to initiate it and handle the situation without looking like a dork since i’m a bit inexperienced lol. any tips and tricks?
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While there are always exceptions, it is probably true in a general way that women find ‘teasing’ a more erotic experience than men do. Many men find it annoying, not exciting. By all means go forward with your plan, but be prepared if the result is less than you’d hoped it would be.
Men are simple creatures. If you just take a picture of yourself laying on the bed or couch in your favorite lingerie and just send it to him and say something like “can’t wait for you to get home :)” he will go crazy. Just play it off casually. Act like nothing is unusual. If he responds to it excitedly, just say “what? I’m just excited to see you”
Teasing can be as easy as wearing two pieces of underwear and snapping a photo of a friendly boob very obviously held in place by something lace-ey that he recognises as new.
Or a thigh.
Or something like that.
Something mildly tacky like a *”Wish you were here…”* written across the picture conveys everything you want to say.
If he comments positively on it, respond with *”well, come home then and see in person”*
Besides that, well. Have a lengthy plan that takes all evening? 🙂
You know what he likes, I’m assuming.
Send him a nude before he boards. Tell him you have missed him…
As for the sex itself, theres so many things I could suggest. But I don’t know if y’all are kinky or vanilla or what y’all love or what your boundaries are.
But passion and enthusiasm go a LONG way. A woman initiating is generally universally a HUGE turn on to a man, as they don’t experience feeling desired the way women typically do.
When He gets home and puts His bags down take Him by the hand and walk Him to Your bedroom. Lay Him on the bed and take His shoes off, get on Your knees and start undoing His belt or pants.
Pull His cock out and gently start kissing the underside of it, then swirl Your tongue on the tip. Start sucking then slowly deep throat the whole cock if You can. Get that gluck gluck noise going. Tell Him how bad You want His cock inside You then the rest will happen naturally.
Not to be the bearer of unsexy news in this thread but–how long is the flight/his travel day? If it’s a really long trip you might want to allow time for a shower when he gets home.
If I were you I’d definitely start by wearing something attractive. Like an outfit you know he likes, or if you’re feeling a bit more adventurous something like lingerie or going nude if that’s something you’re comfortable with. Be intimate, do things like cuddle and tell him how much you missed him. Depending on how you feel maybe consider skipping foreplay. I personally usually just want to get straight to it when it’s been a while. And remember to do things you both like. Maybe play into something he’s into to treat him. Just ideas, do with them as you will! Hope this helped and you and your bf can have a good night 😉
My dream when I will get a girlfriend, in this situation would be, some sexy outfits selfie telling me to chose one, the upon opening the door, she’ll be wearing just an apron, and welcoming me with some homemade food (depending on the arrival time), and the best catch frase, “Do you prefer those little appetizers, or you’re up for a bigger meal?” Lifting the apron till mid thighs.
No explanation needed, I’ll just pick her up, and do her on the nearest furniture, chair, sofas, table,….. Possibly not on the kitchen, don’t want to mess up the sandwich snacks she did for the after…..
Feed him first and flirt with him while he eats, and gauge his mood
Just go with whatever makes you feel sexiest and horniest. I doubt he’ll be picky and will get the hint
Since he’s going to be ready to burst, go down on him and make him cum first. Then, tease to get him hard for round 2, and do any of the other great ideas in the comments, so he’ll be able to last longer.
Ask him?
Truth be told, he may just want to shower and sleep if it was a long, exhausting international trip, especially through different time zones and multiple connecting flights.
But you know him best. An enthusiastic welcome-home BJ is the stuff of fantasy waiting to be made reality.
expect him to finish quite fast
teasing is all about getting into his mind, and promising something he wants, or leading up to that promise.
I would use a build up technique. Start simple, with a photo of yourself. Then a photo of you with less clothing on. Then maybe you with an iceblock in your mouth, then you with less clothing on, then you with that level of clothing but in a suggestive position.
And so on and so forth. Keep going as far as you are willing, can imagine, can conceive. (and are comfortable with)
You don’t have to say much. The more you leave to his imagination the hotter it will be for him.
When you get him home, take control, make it take FOREVER, but in a positive way.
When he wants more don’t tell him ‘no’ so much as ‘not yet’. Let him know it’s coming soon as soon as (whatever it is you want to have/do beforehand).
Make it as much about your own pleasure as his, and it will probably be more about his pleasure than you think. And if there’s something you know he wants to do, but haven’t done it yet, consider it.
Play Eric Church’s song “Like a Wrecking Ball” to get some ideas. He outlines how to do it in there.
Check his oil
I can help you with that!!
My man came home I sucked him till he nutted 4x then I kissed/ licked the sides of his neck under his ears. Try breathing hot air onto it. Then cuddle with him.
I hate to say this but as a man that travels, he might need some time to decompress and sex “might” not be the 1st thing on his mind.
Definitely send him a couple of pictures (lingerie if you have it) to let him know what’s in store. Help him once he gets home to relax and unwind, let the anticipation build as he gets further into the situation.
Whatever happens after that just offer your best energy and give him whatever you know he wants and loves. Then give him a little extra more than you might never have done before or only do on special occasions.
Or, meet him naked at the door and throw him onto the couch and take control of his body and mind. Whatever you think he will love the most.
Either way, have fun!
Text him about all the things you’ve been doing that day; cleaning the house( send photo of you in a French maid outfit), cooking ( photo of you cooking in nothing but an apron), laundry( photo folding clothes in nothing but panties). When he gets home, have his favorite meal/takeout ready and just let it go from there.
Shower or bathe with him, let him relax in his own way than get something nice on.
Or just out something nice on and greet him at the door.
Both work 200% wonders on me and I work out of town for weeks at a time.
Suck his finger
Discreetly show him your underwear in the car on the way home from the airport. Guaranteed boner.
Anal.
Wait till they get home to do it , YW
Enthusiasm & Lingerie.
>knowing that he hasn’t masturbated in a while
Lol k.
Anal. Always anal.
Just bend over and let him put it in your ass
I’d say put first things first. Your guys is gonna come back from a long trip and you want to make sure everything rides well in the first place:
– make sure the home is clean, fridge is packed, laundry and dishes are done, the usual shits that can get someone coming back from travel lose their temper or be irritated
– make sure your bedroom is properly prepared with clean sheets, cold or hot enough (according to your climate), smells good, etc…
– your guy is coming back from a long trip, he’s likely to come home starved, tired and smelly. Preparing him something satisfying but not too heavy he likes to eat, inviting him to take a shower and a nap is probably a good idea. These moments can be put to profits if you’re a bit creative (see later)
Second is to prepare things on your side specifically :
– put yourself in the right disposition: shave/wax (or don’t) according to your preferences or his, make sure you’re clean and fresh (or not), put some perfume and make up (or not), brush your teeth extra well, get your nails done, get your best lingerie, whatever makes you feel sexy and makes him find you sexy
– make sure you have condoms, lube, clean toys, a bottle of water, etc… Everything needed to fuck right there next to your bed
– if you’re into some stuff that requires preparation (everything with anal sex typically), prepare yourself accordingly
– maybe “preheat” yourself by watching some porn, rereading old dirty texts, edging, whatever it takes to put you in the mood and generally speaking have everything run as smooth as possible (few things more enraging than both wanting to go to town and gal says she stays dry)
When it comes to actually going to town when he’ll come back:
– Prepare mentally to the possibility things may not go the way you want but it’s not a catastrophe a d it doesn’t mean your preparation is worthless, you can still fuck later
– after weeks of no sex he may cum in 10 minutes. Same thing: you can still go for a second round later
– you can also prepare him mentally for some sex: Depending on what he likes but usually building up and flirting is pretty efficient: dirty texts, innuendos when you talk, tease him, send nudes (if you’re fine and sure on his part) or even simply revealing stuff, flash titties when he comes home, wear your tightest shorts, etc…
– since he’ll probably have to eat, nap and shower before going into it, you can put these moments to profit. Flash him or tease him while he eats, join him in the shower to help him rub and scrub, give him an extra good massage to help him get fully relaxed.
The thing I’d say is to:
– make sure he understand you want to fuck
– put both of you in the best dispositions for it
– build pressure and teasing and not let it fuze out by keeping the heat
Last thing last: trust your guts and don’t overthink it too hard. It’s your guy, you know how he is, you should be good for it. Meanwhile, few guys come back from weeks of chastity, and refuse sex because things aren’t exactly the way they like.
So these are my advices, they may not be perfect but if I were in your situation that’s how I would do it and if I were in his, I’d say that’s what would be the most likely to work.
As soon as he walks in turn on Over the Hedge and say “Steve Carell is my favorite actor” 😍😍😍
Send him teasers – either picture or text before he boards his plane. Let him think of that the whole flight.
My initial thought was to be waiting for him when he comes home in some nice lingerie & open the door to him wearing that. Push him up against the wall in the hall. I had this situ once & it was *chefs kiss*
He might be tired from his flight though so someone’s suggestion of letting him go for a shower & be waiting for him when he comes out is an excellent one.
Before he gets home prep a bigger bloke to come out the closet and ram him in the arse while he’s on top of you
How do you know that he hasn’t masturbated or even had sex? A LOT of guys that go on “Business Trips,” either stop by strip clubs to get some strange or meet up with another girl…
This is just depressing me because after 10 years of marriage I’ve never come close to a welcome home like this.