I (F28) tend to moan pretty much constantly when being fucked and it sounds very fake, but it’s real and completely out of my control.

Would this be a turn off when having sex? Should I explain myself beforehand?

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  1. Honestly I moan a lot during sex and a lot of the time I think it sounds fake. But nobody has EVER brought it up so I think you’re fine babe haha

  3. I love it as long as it is genuine. Add some dirty talk with the moaning and it’s fireworks!

  4. I think most people would find this a turn-on, and either way you should not suppress your natural reactions. I wouldn’t bring it up unless they do (which would most likely be to tell you they find it hot)

  5. Same here. My husband loves how responsive I am, but yeah. I feel like it sounds fake too.

  6. It’s not. It’s exciting for me, and it signals I’m doing something right. Less chances of XY screwing up.

    Keep it on!

  9. I’m the same way, but mine vary. Boyfriend loves it and will purposely do things that make me moan or be loud, just makes him cum faster, but that’s why we go multiple rounds.

  10. There is a limit to when it starts to feel forced/fake and then yes it turns yucky for me.

  11. I am also very vocal during sex but as my husband says it only shows he’s doing a good job. He constantly tells me he loves my noises and can’t get enough of them.

    From all posts I’ve read in this thread I can pretty much guarantee your moans are a major turn on for your partner.

  12. I’ve felt the same way, since I love to be loud but it also is a great release. My BF says he likes when I’m loud, as have others in my past. It’s very genuine and honestly, it’s a shoutout to my partner, for making me feel that way, LOL. Def a turn-on, if the roles were reversed. I think it’s awkward when partners are unnaturally silent or try to stifle themselves.

  14. Most guys will not care being vocal is hot. And honestly some guys get vocal too if the sex is good

  16. I also wonder if I’m to loud or annoying. My lover makes me feel so good though and I can’t help it.

  17. Fuck no. Moan all your want and it’s more exciting. But it depends on the person. Dirty talk makes it heaven

  20. I sure fucking hope not! I can’t help myself. His cock is just too damn good 😉

  21. You saying it’s completely out of your control is the turn off, it’s your personality. Whoever told you it’s a turn off, was trying to say it’s a turn off, whenever you do it!

  22. Coming from a guy, the only time I can remember moaning being a problem was when I was with this girl who was moaning constantly, but the actual problem was that she was EXTREMELY loud. Besides the fact that it started to get super annoying after a while because she screamed right into my ear, I’d also get complaints from neighbors and there are children living in our neighbourhood which was super embarrassing and made me feel uncomfortable. So, as long as the moaning is in reasonable volume, or if you don’t have any neighbors at all, then I don’t really see a problem with that.

  24. Moans are a positive reinforcement and boost to your man’s confidence. Unless he complains, I believe that he enjoys your moans too.

  25. I can’t help it either when it’s feeling good

    Weirdly i moan more with some guys than others

  26. Anything can be a turn off, but I imagine many, if not most (probably most) find this hot…

  27. I feel like it would be a turnon if I know it is real and a turnoff if I don’t. I wouldn’t say anything regardless though.

  28. Moaning and other vocalisation is part of good bedroom communication. It lets your partner know that you’re enjoying yourself. It’s a turn-on in general, but obviously there’s a line; no one is realistically going to sound like they’re mid-exorcism when they get poked in the knee.

    Just relax, and enjoy the moment. You’re fine.

  31. Quite the opposite. Though some guys associate this with fake “porn” moans, so you can quickly say “just so you know, I’m very loud during sex” when you are doing it for the first time.

  37. Noise , is always a turn on always sexy …. That said
    If your in a small apartment ect .. it can be a issue …. A sexy issue , but still a issue … A self imposed gag might be the ticket in those senarios …. But nah , nothing wrong with you , be you !

    Just like anything tho , communication is key …, now that you have done it and he’s seen it, you could just tell him “hey I find it a little embarrassing, but I just wanted to let you know I’m a little Vocal in the bedroom “ Then he will say something hopefully positive…. And you could say “I would understand if you though I was faking , but I’m not”. Ect …. Or something like that .

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