Edit for clarification. Was it the right decision? Did you regret it and did it last? For context I’ve known that I haven’t been in love with my wife for several years now and have only stayed as long as I have because I didn’t want to hurt her but the desire to have my own place and life is too strong. I met someone else who I connect with in a way I never did with my wife and that spurred me to finally make the decision to get divorced. Anyone else been in similar circumstances and if so how did it go?

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  3. If you have to choose between two, you’ll be at zero pretty soon, and you’ll deserve it. Eventually that girl will feel some type of way about being chosen over another, even though she won, it’ll eat at her.

  4. If a woman is going after you when you’re married then it’s pretty safe to assume she’ll do it again. And you aren’t doing your wife a favor although sounds like you’ve been cheating for a long time so. Maybe the wife is better off without you. No respect for you.

  5. Cheaters are going to cheat. The only way to make that work is if you’re content to live in the fast lane forever, just dating around for short-term relationships. She’ll leave at some point, you say “Oh, well” and move on to the next one for a few months and then repeat the cycle. I know people of both sexes who do this. They crave drama and excitement, and the steady pace of a healthy marriage is boring for them. But when you belong to everyone, you belong to no one.

  6. My ex left me for another woman. Says it was the worst mistake of his life. They both cheated on each other and have broken up and gotten back together many times. I think they are over for good now. He seems miserable. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  8. If you want a divorce for whatever reason, that’s up to you. You don’t need anyone to tell you replacing your wife with your mistress is a stupid idea. You want to be single, be single. You want more trouble, get more involved with that homewrecker.

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