Me and her have been dating for almost 2 years atp. She is my first girlfriend and the first and only person I have had sex with. Our sex life was amazing for about a year and I used to be able to go for almost an hour. But for the past year I randomly stopped lasting long in bed. Sometimes I will last 30 min (3 times in past year) but majority is under 5 minutes and sometimes within a minute. I go down on her regularly and she says I am amazing at it and I always make her finish. She constantly reassures me that’s it’s fine because I still always make her finish in the end (I will go down on her after I finish), but I just can’t stop thinking that eventually going down on her won’t be enough and that our sex life will be a problem. We also always use condoms so I feel really nervous about me lasting without one as she is going on the pill soon.
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there is techniques to last longer, and you can always cum more than once, there’s techniques for that too, search for it
Pre-gaming is an option. But as long as she is happy and you get her to cum then you are doing fine in my book. I have never lasted a long time. But I ALWAYS make sure she cums first. It is more normal then you think. Find ways to play more and spend more time edging each other. Many pleasurable experiences can come from that.
There are some numbing gels and sprays that you can get. If she says you are good then you are good. I wouldn’t worry about it honestly. You could also search for things that help with premature ejaculation if it really bothers you, you can talk to a doctor about it.
That’s a long time to have sex, maybe she is happy you’re finishing sooner.