At what date approx. must happen for the first timeI?

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1. There isn’t a set schedule. That’s between the two of you.

2. Varies from person to person, but for me the first kiss is usually date 1 and sex is usually sometime between dates 3 and 5. As long as you’re enjoying your time together and you are demonstrating through flirting that there is a sexual interest, don’t get too caught up in specific timelines. Understand though, if you’re not escalating the flirting, including physical contact, there does come a point in which women will feel as if they’re not desired by you and it will kill their attraction to you.

3. rule of thumb is sex on the third date

4. It should happen when both parties want it. Second date is a good time to ask when they typically sleep with someone they are seeing. Base your next steps off what she says and what you are ready for. If she’s ready now and you aren’t, don’t do it. If she’s not and you are, don’t do it. If you are both ready, go for it. There isn’t a set time for anyone, it depends on if both people agree.