Hi, so I’ve went on several dates with a guy that I really enjoy. He’s fun, smart, cute, tall, funny, he checks off a lot of my basic boxes. We haven’t had a conversation about our relationship status but he did say he moves slow in relationships while I move fast. I need advice on how to navigate dating, I always put my eggs in one basket and then get upset when it ends and I have to start the dating process over but I find it hard to make plans with other men because I just think about him. Should I just date him and go through the process again if it ends or should I continue dating others until he makes the full commitment?
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Main stream dating spaces would probably tell you that you should date multiple people at once so that way you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket but, I would say you know yourself the best. If you feel like dating, multiple people is too much for you and that you wouldn’t be Giving these other people a real chance because your mind is occupied with thoughts of someone else then I would say don’t put yourself in that situation. I would also say that someone taking their time to get to know someone or slow burn dating is usually a good thing, though sometimes people may feel like it just means that they have other options which could be true or not. It depends on the person and that’s a conversation. I could also be had. At the end of the day I think that the best thing to do is to have a conversation with the person and express how you feel in your thoughts on what’s going on with the two of you
If you were dating me but also chatting to other man I would block you on everything and lose all respect for you.
And men in your sphere that see you engage in this behaviour will think and do the same.
How would you feel if he dumped you today and said he found a girl with slightly bigger boobs?
You would feel like absolute shit.