Hello,

I (F21) have bought myself my second sex toy (a rabbit vibrator) and am hoping to use it when it arrives. I very often use a rose clit vibrator or just my hands, but other than that, I have very little experience with penetrating inside my vagina…

I have never used a tampon before (I’ve always found it uncomfortable and never tried it again) and have tried to finger myself before (got one finger in before I decided that it wasn’t for me).

I also find it difficult to line things up with my vagina, as weird as that sounds. I have quite large outer lips that makes things difficult for me…..

Despite that, however, when I typically do masturbate, I do wish to insert something other than just using my clit, so there is an actual motivation there.

Would it be wise of me to go straight to using this vibrator (slowly ofc) or should I first finger myself? Is there any advice you guys can give me?

Thank you 🙂

4 comments

  2. Go slow, don’t set expectations of what “should” happen, how it “should feel” or how much you “should” fit in. Just take in each sensation and focus on what feels good to you.
    I would recommend some lube to help with insertion as well. Any hit of dryness can really make the whole thing difficult. Fingering before hand is up to you, and if you enjoy it. Personally I never really finger myself as I just don’t get off from it, and I don’t have issues going straight for the toy, lol.
    But don’t discount foreplay! It’s important with a partner and with yourself. Set the mood however you like to, whether it be with porn, erotica, or just good ol imagination. Feel free to start off with what your used to, like your hands or your rose toy, and work on up to the rabbit as you get more turned on. The more relaxed and into you are, the less difficult it’ll be to insert.
    Good luck, and have fun.

  3. Before I first had penetrative sex, I used my fingers and dildos. It made my first experience with sex much less painful. I would recommend using your fingers first and then working up to a dildo. I honestly recommend every woman to do this

    Edit: Also, use lube or make yourself cum from clitoral stimulation before penetrating

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